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Quoting smallpecker:
Mistress, Your going to have to weigh a few things,First If you do split up,are there children involved and who will have them,Being a single dad myself for many years now,thats a hard job esp if your going to have to work also,Don't plan on your ex supporting you when you split up,Also Don't plan on having a lot of time on your hands for yourself or dating,As all the normal chores will fall on to your shoulders such as shopping cleaning laundry,kids off to school ,cooking meals,and much more Daily.Just because you are a little bored in a relationship can be a very hazardous situation if you make a rash decision that is life altering in ways you may not realize until its too late.I was married for a long time and with her even longer about 19 years or so,She got bored and decided to try a new boyfriend on the side and drugs,Of course I divorced her for good reason soon as i found out ,Just because you have become bored like a kid that done with a toy does not mean something is salvageable.Number one communication,Talk with your significant other and see how he feels,2 Go to see a Marriage consoler together,3 Go out with other couples for a fun night on a regular basis,,sometimes mixed company will loosen things up and the extra company will make quite an enjoyable time.Then after this and a few more things you still are bored with each other ,then maybe a separation may be in order,The risks involved are of course he may find someone better he likes,or you may,neither one of you may not be able to support yourselves in these tough times.I have been,my ex wife has not,she has gone from place to place every couple weeks,owes everyone in the county money,and her reputation has diminished to totally untrustable,even among her family members that have tried to help her.Lately I know she has hit bottom as she is a very proud woman ,and she thought she was doing the right thing at the time because she was bored with our relationship.And she refused to try anything to fix it but her solution.I now get Ph calls from her asking to go on vacation with Me and the Girls,to come over for dinner,and other events,Trouble is ,I am no longer interested in her in anyway ,and apparently after she got that little bit of boredness out of her has realized hey,I lost everything,and how well I did treat her,And from what i can see wants it back ,and feels she can just come walking right back in and take up where she left off,I don't think so.Mistress this is the situation you could find yourself in,You need to make sure splitting up with your husband after so long is the right thing and think about the risks involved,And remember if your husband is a good man there are plenty of good women looking for a good man out there.Weigh your circumstances carefully and do not make a rash decision ,being a little bored can be cured easily ,Going the other route can be a rest of your lifetime mess.Its your decision think long and hard about it,as in most cases its irreversible,once its been done.
Mistress, Your going to have to weigh a few things,First If you do split up,are there children involved and who will have them,Being a single dad myself for many years now,thats a hard job esp if your going to have to work also,Don't plan on your ex supporting you when you split up,Also Don't plan on having a lot of time on your hands for yourself or dating,As all the normal chores will fall on to your shoulders such as shopping cleaning laundry,kids off to school ,cooking meals,and much more Daily.Just because you are a little bored in a relationship can be a very hazardous situation if you make a rash decision that is life altering in ways you may not realize until its too late.I was married for a long time and with her even longer about 19 years or so,She got bored and decided to try a new boyfriend on the side and drugs,Of course I divorced her for good reason soon as i found out ,Just because you have become bored like a kid that done with a toy does not mean something is salvageable.Number one communication,Talk with your significant other and see how he feels,2 Go to see a Marriage consoler together,3 Go out with other couples for a fun night on a regular basis,,sometimes mixed company will loosen things up and the extra company will make quite an enjoyable time.Then after this and a few more things you still are bored with each other ,then maybe a separation may be in order,The risks involved are of course he may find someone better he likes,or you may,neither one of you may not be able to support yourselves in these tough times.I have been,my ex wife has not,she has gone from place to place every couple weeks,owes everyone in the county money,and her reputation has diminished to totally untrustable,even among her family members that have tried to help her.Lately I know she has hit bottom as she is a very proud woman ,and she thought she was doing the right thing at the time because she was bored with our relationship.And she refused to try anything to fix it but her solution.I now get Ph calls from her asking to go on vacation with Me and the Girls,to come over for dinner,and other events,Trouble is ,I am no longer interested in her in anyway ,and apparently after she got that little bit of boredness out of her has realized hey,I lost everything,and how well I did treat her,And from what i can see wants it back ,and feels she can just come walking right back in and take up where she left off,I don't think so.Mistress this is the situation you could find yourself in,You need to make sure splitting up with your husband after so long is the right thing and think about the risks involved,And remember if your husband is a good man there are plenty of good women looking for a good man out there.Weigh your circumstances carefully and do not make a rash decision ,being a little bored can be cured easily ,Going the other route can be a rest of your lifetime mess.Its your decision think long and hard about it,as in most cases its irreversible,once its been done.
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