It's a day dedicated to treating them out to Breakfast, playing a game or an activity of their choice, hopefully go to the gym, shower, then have lunch, catch a movie, dinner, and goodnight.
A ideal date for me for me would be a lovely walk in the sun or a hike, then some brunch ; followed by a daily sunny afitivity or hike. Afterwards lunch swimming and a romantic dinner. Then a romantic evening.
Paintball! Or, dressing up/improv to test drive cars neither of us could realistically afford. Or, exploring abandoned buildings. Or, good old fashioned netflix, cuddling, and talking. Sex is great, but actually connecti... see more >>
Paintball! Or, dressing up/improv to test drive cars neither of us could realistically afford. Or, exploring abandoned buildings. Or, good old fashioned netflix, cuddling, and talking. Sex is great, but actually connecting is better.
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Huntington Beach, CA, USA
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going to a restaurant getting some dinner talking about everything then walking on the beach hand in hand looking at the sunset then possibly after we could go to karaoke or if it's not going that night we could go get a... see more >>
going to a restaurant getting some dinner talking about everything then walking on the beach hand in hand looking at the sunset then possibly after we could go to karaoke or if it's not going that night we could go get a cup of coffee and talk some more
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39, cub / man
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Rugeley, England - Staffordshire, GBR
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a place where we could talk and eat or if your that spontaneous we can go some where decent and let our bodies do the talking
The breeze is gentle, lightly tossing leaves in the surrounding trees enough to calm you... If only a little bit. You have been nervous all morning, getting ready to meet some guy who wants to "silently meet"... see more >>
The breeze is gentle, lightly tossing leaves in the surrounding trees enough to calm you... If only a little bit. You have been nervous all morning, getting ready to meet some guy who wants to "silently meet".
You walk with an unsteady pace, unable to maintain a consistent step... Your mind is racing too damn much. You can't remember if you locked your car door. "No... I won't worry about that, I'll be fine. Everything will be fine" you say to yourself. "God I hope he's not a creeper" you mutter to yourself, trying desperately to calm yourself. You have no idea why you are so anxious, you've met people before but... This feels different.
You read his profile a few weeks ago. He seemed like a decent guy, just as quirky and awkward as you are... Typically. Then he finally sent you a message. "words are useless, they get into the way of the true communication methods. Your body, your eyes, breathing, sweat. They all say novels while your words only lie. Let's meet... And let's not say a word. We will let our eyes talk, our hands meet... Our bodies will do the speaking."
Intrigued, you are curious to say the least. Your heart pounds hard in your chest when you think of looking into his eyes, knowing you are forbidden to talk. The mind swims violently with images of passion, fear and yet you keep walking.
After stopping for a moment to catch your breath, check your forehead for signs of life, check your mask, your eyeliner, hair, and make sure you put deodorant on, you continue walking to the spot your new toy has set as the meeting place for your first rendezvous. "or am I his pet?" You ask yourself, stopping suddenly while dizzying images and made up cinematics you have rehearsed in your head for nights on end have swiveled 180 degrees, putting you into the submissive role. You feel queasy, but your heart races again. "I can be a good pet for master... " you smirk to yourself, letting a slight chuckle out before turning to climb the steep levee stairs.....
almost anything except a movie haha. you cant really talk amd get to know someome at a move. almost anything outside would be great but so would bowling or even going to a mall to have something to do what chatting
hit the town and seeing something new. then we find a nice place to eat at followed by a nice little walk
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34, cub / man
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London, England - London, GBR
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Spontaneous... Flow with whatever wave the moment presents... It is more about the person than anything else... More about the current... Venues, activities, budgets etc are but fleeting considerations... Smiles, and hug... see more >>
Spontaneous... Flow with whatever wave the moment presents... It is more about the person than anything else... More about the current... Venues, activities, budgets etc are but fleeting considerations... Smiles, and hugs, and kisses and holding hands, laughing together or crying, that is not dependent on ideal first dates, rather on real people who want to make things happen
My ideal date is a woman of compassion, Excitement,and likes to be treated with respect, stimulated conversation with common goals, nice dinner, comedy,drinks,and a peaceful presence of life and the goals we want in a me... see more >>
My ideal date is a woman of compassion, Excitement,and likes to be treated with respect, stimulated conversation with common goals, nice dinner, comedy,drinks,and a peaceful presence of life and the goals we want in a meaningful relationship
Maybe we can start with a dinner and some light drinks to take the edge off then a little stroll back to your place or mine to talk throw on a movie with a candle lit lay back and play with your hair.
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